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How Much Would you Invest in a New Partner?

Written by Davinder Bisht on 9:12 AM

A 32-year-old single graphic designer from Brisbane recently offered ,000 to anyone who could find her a life partner.

“I did it as a bit of a joke, but there is a serious side to it,” she explained.

“I’m getting older and, to be honest, I’d rather spend my Saturday mornings at open for inspections with a partner than getting over another Friday night with all the other singles from work.”

Her proposition seems to stack up financially too. Studies around the world show that marriage makes you richer, not to mention happier and healthier (and having a long term partner also means you’re more likely to live long enough to qualify for a birthday card from the Queen).

One study found that workers who are married earn between 10% and 20% more than singles. And they can split plenty of big ticket costs with their partner like a mortgage and the latest 33 inch plasma TV too.

It’s easy to sympathise with Sex and the City’s Carrie, who indignantly presented her smug married friend with a compensation claim for the thousands of dollars she’d spent on the engagement present, the wedding, the baby showers and all of her friend’s other major life events.

Forget for a moment that a long term partner can lead to long term financial commitments – like children, a bigger house and a massive car – and marriage seems to stack up.

If a financial planner came and offered you a return of hundreds of thousands of dollars – and a few bonus years on earth – in return for an investment of just ,000, wouldn’t you be crazy not to sign up?

“It just seems a bit too crass and desperate to me,” said Toby, a self-confessed romantic (who nevertheless joined an introduction agency & online dating in a bid to find a new partner).

But is it really such a radical idea? After all, in many cultures there is nothing wrong with offering a dowry to your unmarried daughter’s prospective new family.

And women (and increasingly men) can spend thousands in just a few years of dating on the obligatory waxing and primping – not to mention hundreds of nights at pricey singles bars – in their quest to find a partner. And while online dating is cheaper in comparison to a night out in a trendy spot there's no guarantees.

In an increasingly rushed world, why not just cut to the chase?
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How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship

Written by Davinder Bisht on 8:58 PM

I finally met someone after months of Online Dating & clubs. You know the story. Three months into our relationship, my boyfriend broke my heart: he took a job interstate.

We agreed to see each other every two or three weeks at weekends. We reassured ourselves we were strong enough to survive the separation. I'd always thought of myself as a mature, reasonable person. Of course he has to take the job, I told myself. I won't come between him and his dreams. A week after he left, I started crying and couldn't stop. He felt awful too.

But the 12 months apart forced us to create our own relationship survival kit. And for all you long-distance lovers, here are our five golden rules:

Don't endure long goodbyes at airports. Drop one another off and leave. An airport is no place for a meaningful goodbye.

Maintain daily contact, either by phone, email, IM or letter. Share the small things about your day.

No mode of long-distance communication can replace being with someone. Recognise this and don't blame one another for the longing.

Share an imaginative space together. Read the same books, listen to the same music. Go to see the same movie at the same time. Sit in a cinema and know that your lover is going through the same experience, the same images and sounds.

On weekends together, be relaxed. Try not to put pressure on yourselves and on the short time you have with one another.

Have courage! As Charles Dickens wrote, "The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again".

The time apart could be the best thing for you. My boyfriend and I used the enforced separation to think about what we wanted from the relationship and from our lives. Six years later we're just as much in love as ever – and we're about to get married!

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Herbal Sex Pills - Stronger Harder Erections Quickly and Better Performance Naturally!

Written by Davinder Bisht on 9:30 AM

If you are suffering from erectile dysfunction or simply want better performance in bed, taking powerful safe and natural herbs, can help you enjoy better performance and better sex. Let's take a look at how and why they work...

You are what you eat and if you feed your body the right foods, you can not only boost sexual performance but also enjoy better health. Let's look at the common problems which cause low libido and then the herbs that can cure the problems.

Low levels of testosterone in the body, can cause not just sexual health problems but numerous illnesses and its vital you keep levels topped up.

Another major problem in terms of health and sexual performance is sluggish blood circulation. You need strong blood circulation, to pump blood to the genitals when you become aroused, it's vital!

When blood arrives at the genitals, it needs to enter the penis and for this you need lots of Nitric oxide. This vital chemical is secreted in the walls of the blood vessels and lets them expand enough, to let an increased flow of blood in. The penis swells with blood and an erection is the end result. If you don't get enough of this key chemical, you will never get an erection, let alone a hard one.

Your state of mind also plays a key role and stress, anxiety and fatigue impact on body energy levels, when energy levels drop, so does libido.

The above are all common problems and the best herbal sex pills; blend a cocktail of proven herbs, to tackle all the above problems, improving sexual health and overall wellness.

Here are some of the best

For Testosterone Increase:

The best herbs are - Horny Goat Weed, Mucuna Pruriens and Tongkat Ali.

For Better Blood Circulation:

The best herbs are - Ginkgo Biloba, Ginseng and Cnidium.

For More Nitric Oxide:

The best herbs are - Horny Goat Weed, Cnidium and L'arginine.

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The best herbs are - Tribulus Terrestris, Jujube Fruit and Maca

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The best herbal sex pills will combine the above herbs and others, to give your sexual health and general wellness a boost, quickly and naturally, so you get more from life and of course - more from sex!